Happy pills.
Smilers.
Mommy’s little helpers.
They come in an abundance of names and have changed many a life. What what you say? I say antidepressants.
I am a big personal advocate for medication. In the midst of a Postpartum Psychosis , when I was terrified of everything and everyone, when I thought I was floating to the sky and the walls were suffocating me, when I spent 100 quid on bags of potatoes and filled the garden with juice extractors after a spree on the shopping channel at 2am, they cleared the fog so I could focus on recovery. I did all this while also having a 24 hour all you can eat milk canteen pumping on my chest.
As you may know from my other blogs, breastfeeding became important to me almost overnight. I had assumed I would mix feed my son so before he was even born, along with the 87 cans of caffeine free diet coke and value strawberry angel delights I became obsessed with, I would order those readymade cartons of formula. I just assumed I would use them. And then I gave birth, became terrified of being near my little boy, refused to look at him or be in the same room as him but felt a desperate pang to feed him myself. I do not know what it was. I found the very idea of being near him beyond comprehension. I remember the day that I ran out into the middle of the road screaming ‘I’m trapped, take me away from this world, he has trapped me’. My partner brought me back into the house, I slumped myself on the floor, crying my eyes out. My mum was there and said ‘Evelyn, what is it love, tell me how you feel, please’. I looked at her, angry and I can remember clear as day saying ‘I hate these feelings, I can’t bear it, I can’t. even.bear.to.look.at.him’. My mum started weeping and said ‘but he is so precious Evelyn. Look at him love, please, cuddle him, please love’, and I just stared at the carpet. And then he started crying. And I did what I was later to realise I always did when he did this – I picked him up , my partner held him to me and I nursed him. I found it hard to look at him but my boobs would tingle when he cried as if they ached to comfort him.
The feelings I experienced were so confusing and terrified me. I was , what was later described in therapy, grieving deeply for my old life. I felt dead, void of positive feelings towards the future and scared of the life waiting for me ahead. But I found myself needing and wanting it nurse the child I didn’t think I wanted.
The day I was hospitalised in a psychiatric mother and baby unit was when I had a sense of realisation that I wanted to not only be my sons mother and carer but I also wanted to feed him. After John had found me wandering around in a daze, I had run into his parents’ room and began crawling round the bed on all fours. I was screaming for someone to help me. John was talking on the phone to a psychiatrist and I was walking up and down the stairs over and over, talking to myself. I suddenly heard another voice. A family member was on the phone to the doctor’s surgery and was asking for the GP to prescribe some tablets for me to dry my milk up so they could bottle feed Joe. And this was when my brain bolted. I knew I was ill. I knew I was terrified of my role as a mum and the terror of this being a job I would have forever like it or not, filled me with a fear that I had never ever experienced. I was confused, scared, and lost in my own thoughts but I knew something. I knew I wanted to feed my son. I knew I could do that. It was the one thing that I could do for him that no one else could.
I was admitted to the mother and baby unit later that day and prescribed antidepressants that were compatible with nursing and it was amazing. I was able to begin recovering while doing the one thing that was important to me
Yet so many women are still told it is not possible. It is in lots of cases. Of course, for some, it is not possible, but it is not a blanket rule.
Ten years on, I coordinate the UK Mental Health Awareness Week with a small group of people affected by perinatal mental illness. Up to one in five women experience mental illness during pregnancy and the first year after birth – that is what perinatal means. However, apparently only around 50% of these are diagnosed. I want to arm women and families with knowledge so they can get the care they need and deserve and one of the things we at PMHP look at during the Awareness Week is breastfeeding and antidepressants. We get so many emails from women saying they think they may have to stop feeding to take any medication and are desperately sad and upset about it.
I need help. I do not want to feel this way – how do I get help ?
I have been there. Given birth and thinking at some point soon the hills will be alive with the sound of sweet gurgling baby noises but instead, ferocious waves are crashing around in your head. You are overwhelmed. You are crying. You are having thoughts enter your head which are scaring you. You may be questioning whether you love your baby. You want someone and something to help it get better.
You deserve help and support. Please open to a health care professional and tell them about your feelings so they can work out what the best treatment is for you. Even if the thoughts you are having you are scared off . I did an Instagram Live last month about Intrusive Thoughts in the Perinatal Period with Catherine Benfield where we discussed thoughts that are about harm or are sexual in nature. Trigger warning if you do watch and if you have have been having these kinds of thoughts, you are not an awful person at all. Not in anyway. Please let the Instagram Live session reassure you – https://www.instagram.com/tv/CCWoFeHF4Me/?igshid=11en4xnqxzltq
If you aren’t sure how to open up, you could fill in the GP Appointment Checklist – a simple but innovative perinatal mental illness appointment checklist was developed by my friends Smile Group for mums who find it challenging to articulate how they feel when speaking to GPs, HVs or midwives http://www.thesmilegroup.org/help-from-the-professionals/ . If the midwife or HV is visiting your house , you could pass it to them or if you are seeing a GP over an e consultation because of Covid, you could email a version for their attention ahead of your appointment.
At the start of lockdown , I pulled together this directory of perinatal mental illness support during Covid-19 and beyond.
The article is here : https://smalltimemum1.wordpress.com/2020/03/31/support-when-mums-need-it-most-perinatal-mental-health-support-during-covid-19-and-beyond/
The aim of it is to provide a supportive platform which can reassure families and signpost them to vital resources and support which is what people need most at this time. While we are a few months later and some service provision will have changed , the article provides an overview of services for mums experiencing perinatal mental illness during this unusual time.
The article covers :
1 – Overview of online perinatal mental health support
2 – Online Perinatal Mental Health Peer Support groups / forums
3 – Perinatal mental health charities offering their support in new ways during the isolation period
4 – Maternal Mental Health Online Courses
5 – Useful details of national mental health charities and groups
6 – Regional perinatal mental health support in their usual form
7- Support for BAME mums
8 – Other groups/apps/organisations that provide support to mums
9 – Breastfeeding Support
10 – Covid Support
11- Support Resources
12 – Suicidal thoughts / Help in a crisis
13 – Perinatal Mental Illnesses and their symptoms
Disclaimer
I am not a doctor. I did once receive a letter addressed to Dr Steve Caravan which was meant for me, Miss Eve Canavan but alas, it was not the career choice for me. Therefore , this blog will not be me telling you what meds to take as this is not appropriate for me to do – we need to look at the guidance from health care professionals and so I have placed it all in here in place so it is easy to navigate.
This blog is not about feeding choices or how women choose to feed their babies. It is about plonking all the breastfeeding and antidepressant information in once place , at a time when everything can feel too much and overwhelming.
Perinatal Mental Health Toolkit
Your GP has resources to help you if you are experiencing perinatal mental illness. These include the Perinatal Mental Health Toolkit which gives doctors access to things which will help them support unwell mums.
It is below, and anyone can look at it, not just GPs. As someone with lived experience of perinatal mental illness, I, alongside several other women, supported the creation of the Toolkit, giving advice from the lived experience viewpoint.
http://www.rcgp.org.uk/clinical-and-research/toolkits/perinatal-mental-health-toolkit.aspx
It contains clinical which offers information on presentation, diagnosis, and treatment both with medication as well as psychological treatment. There is significant geographical variation in the provision of specialist perinatal mental health services across the UK and it is important GPs know where to access further information.
It is absolutely BRILLO-PADS. Thanks for it Dr Carrie Ladd.
Guidelines In Practice
There is also this great article written by my mate Dr Stephanie de Giorgio for GPs about identifying and counselling women with postnatal, perinatal, and current or previous mental health problems, non-pharmacological and pharmacological treatment options and when to refer to secondary care.
Medication in pregnancy and breastfeeding
It also has a whole section on this advising that the decision to use medication to treat a mental health problem during the perinatal period is a complex one and individual to each woman. Clinicians should be able to help women make an informed decision and the following resources may be assist them to do so.
- The UK Teratology Information Service provides information for healthcare professionals on the safely of drugs in pregnancy.
- Best Use of Medicines in Pregnancy provides patient information leaflets on the safety of drugs in pregnancy.
- UK Drugs in Lactation Service (UKDILAS) The UKDILAS service provides evidence-based information on the use of drugs during the breastfeeding period. This website contains links to articles on the safety profile of individual drugs or groups of drugs.
- LactMed the Drugs and Lactation Database of the US National Library of Medicine.
- MHRA Toolkit on the Risks of Valproate Medications in Female Patients (patient card, patient booklet, healthcare professional booklet and acknowledgement of risk form). There is now strong evidence that the risks of using sodium valproate in pregnancy are too high to be considered acceptable and clinicians should urgently review their prescribing of this drug to women of childbearing age. MHRA film on the risks of taking Valpraote medications during pregnancy.
- A systematic review of evidence base of psychotropic medications: Management of psychotropic drugs during pregnancy Chisholm M & Payne J (2016)
The Breastfeeding Network
What a brilliant organisation these are.
At the Breastfeeding Network, they are in contact with, and support thousands of new mums every year and around 15% of the calls to their old Drugs in Breastmilk information service related to mental health issues.
They also advise on their website that research also shows that more than 3 in 5 women stopped breastfeeding earlier than they wanted to. This shows the importance of providing good quality breastfeeding support and evidence-based information on the safety of anti-depressant medication for mums who do want to breastfeed.
They have detailed, evidence based, information sheets on anxiety and breastfeeding, feeling depressed and breastfeeding, feeling anxious and breastfeeding, OCD and breastfeeding, Bipolar disorder and breastfeeding and postnatal depression treatments and breastfeeding. These are written by their qualified and highly experienced pharmacist and can be downloaded or printed out to discuss with your midwife, health visitor or GP.
Drugs in Breastmilk Antidepressant Factsheets – https://www.breastfeedingnetwork.org.uk/antidepressants/
You can call the National Breastfeeding Helpline which is open from 9.30am-9.30pm 365 days a year on 0300 100 0212 to talk to a trained volunteer, who is also a mum who has breastfed. The helpline also welcomes calls from partners, family members and friends.
GP Infant Feeding Network
The GP Infant Feeding Network (UK), also known as GPIFN, has developed this website as a clinical resource for General Practitioners (GPs) working in the UK. The website was developed as an independent, voluntary project by UK GPs with assistance and input from colleagues working in infant feeding, maternity and early years.
They advise that the website can be used as a basic reference for learning more about infant feeding issues that may present to the GP. It also signposts to further information from trusted independent sources.
The intention is to help GPs in the UK easily find evidence based information on infant feeding which assists their practice and enables them to complement the work of those supporting healthy infant feeding.
https://gpifn.org.uk/maternal-mental-health/
Dr Wendy Jones MBE – Facebook Lives
During each UK Maternal Mental Health Awareness Week, Queen of Pharmacists Dr Wendy Jones MBE delivers a Facebook live for us about Breastfeeding and antidepressants. Wendy is a bit of a hero to nursing mamas and is truly an incredible, kind, and supportive resource. Take a look at a previous Facebook live she has done about this very subject here https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=826557897700531&id=587696788088228.
Wendy’s website is here – https://breastfeeding-and-medication.co.uk/
Breastfeeding myths.
There are so many wild rumours about breastfeeding that they can really overwhelm people and make your boobs feel oiled bursting out of their bra for relief. These myths only serve to not support women who wish to feed so I was very honoured to recently have queen of boobs Shel Banks join me on Instagram Live for a Supporting Mums session on this very subject.
Things such as when and how much poo should a week-old baby be producing if breastfed? What does green poo mean – has my baby been fathered by an alien? Do oats up milk supply as I have eaten 4 packets of hobnobs? Can I have some wine when I am breastfeeding, or will it make my baby drunk and climb on a table singing The Wheels on The Bus while pooping into its nappy?
Take a look as Shel is so reassuring and kind – https://www.instagram.com/tv/CDi6GFMFkEp/?igshid=1ggkuzq59xkgw
You will get better. I promise .
For me, medication saved my life and I will be forever grateful – it really was the only thing that helped me when I was unwell. Medication freed me from the hysteria of hallucinations and I will forever praise them for giving me the gift of my life back.
Diamonds may be a nice present but for me , the best I ever had was becoming Eve again and learning not to be scared of my baby. Who cares if I had to shake, rattle, and roll along the medication yellow brick road to get here?
I wrote this about antidepressants if you fancy another read – https://smalltimemum1.wordpress.com/2015/02/26/tear-up-those-anti-depressant-prescriptions-all-you-need-to-do-is-climb-into-a-magicians-hatnudge-the-rabbit-out-of-the-way-and-abracadabra-youre-cured-in-a-puff-of-pull-yourself-together-smo/
Eve xx
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